Are you still stucked to your thoughts inside your head that you are not deserving of receiving love from others, it is now the time to put an end to that thought and start seeing things in a more positive manner.
When you finally love yourself wholly without judgments and inhibitions, you can feel free and ready. Ready to value and love others and will be open in receiving love from them without the doubt from within yourself. It is now the time to set yourself free from the ruinous thoughts inside your head. It is now the time to set yourself free from all the pain and heartaches of the past. No more lingering on those mistakes, no more self-blaming. The pain of the past will stay in the past. Don't let it trouble and destroy you from your present moment. The past made you stronger, and I am happy for you that despite all of the pain and trauma you've gone through, you are still standing firmly. It is now the time to move forward, no more stagnation. Free yourself from that cage, from that wall you built. There are so much more for you, so many people and blessings you will be able to interact and receive. No is the time to soar freely and to savour your freedom. You don't deserve to locked yourself up in that cage, feeling fearful. When that turbulent storm has finally come to it's end, there comes a rainbow that will give you a new hope. A new beginning, a time to make new memories and meet new people. No that you've learned, you can be able to use what you have learned to help others. Help them, so that they can be able to grow and flourish as an individual. Don't set yourself back, and do what you can do to help others. You are capable of so many things and you must use it. Use it for the greater good. There are so many negativity in this world, help to at the very least do your part to make a positive change whether it is big or a small one. When you finally be able to treat yourself right, start treating other people like that too. Share your goodness into others. Be more open to people that is in need of your thoughts and opinions. Show your compassion to people who you think are in need of that. And as for you be more open to receiving all the goodness life has to offer. You've been through much, suffered too much, you deserve to be happy. Be open to a lot of possibilities and opportunities and set a positive mindset for a better impact. You can do it. Do not resist any good thing that will come your way. It is for you and will always be for you. Accept all of it. Live in your present moment and enjoy every single thing that you will get to experience. It is nice to look forward as to what will happen tomorrow. Don’t forget to smile and show it outside, your smile can help someone’s day brighter. Don’t chase love, what’s for you will simply find you. And when it’s still not coming to you yet, take your time to enjoy life with your own company. Remember this “you don’t chase, you attract”.
Chapter 17: Life Design
Design a life you love
I know you have your goals and aspirations. And I just want to tell you, you can start doing the work right now. Don’t wait for the perfect moment, your perfect moment is today. You have the kind of life you really want to have, you also have the dreams you want to achieve. But right now, I want to you to look at your present situation. See what are some problems, and instead of looking at all of it negatively think what you can do to fix your current situation. Start first from your viewpoint, change your perception when you look at things in life. Then work on yourself, be better than yesterday. Take baby steps and enjoy the process. Slowly become the person you aspire on becoming. It is also important to hold your vision and visualize the life you really love. The path on getting there is not always easy but as long as you have the determination to attain that kind of life, you will be able to get there someday. “Our aspirations, are our possibilities.” You have the courage to attain it. Regardless of what other’s may say, you have the ability to take charge of your life because you own it. You have the ability to create the life you know you will love to have. Go for it. Don’t let anyone hinder you from achieving it, you got this. Always trust the process, and trust yourself.
Create a career you love
Don’t choose the career others want you to take. I see this as a problem to most people, because of the fact that our parents were the ones who always decide which career we will take. And of course as a daughter or a son who just wanted to follow our parents we will take it. Because we don’t want to disappoint them, we don’t want to disagree, we are afraid to speak the truth to what we really want. Another reason is that sometimes are parents we’re to busy deciding for what we will do for our future that they sometimes put their unfinished/unfulfilled dreams to their children. And the fact that comes after that, is sometimes they forget to listen to the voices of their children and some of them refuse to even accept their child’s opinion. Our parents sometimes tend to act selfishly, I know they just wanted the best life for us but at certain times instead of helping us to fly they were the ones that cut are wings. That instead of understanding us, they were the first ones to judge us. Instead of showing their support, sometimes the words that came out of their mouths were all criticism. It hurts a lot, and it seems like this is something unacceptable and unbelievable because it is done by our parents. That truth is like a slap for a child, it is painful. Most of the teens these days experience this. And to be honest, this truth saddens me. At certain times I can sympathize to those people who experience this kind of pain. I would like to take this change to share this to all of you. Since I also need this to get off my chest. There was this time were my family and I were eating dinner and talked about certain things. And the topic went to the career that I need to take. They were discussing that I should take this, this one but those careers that were mentioned is the careers I don’t want to take. And that scenario keeps going on, and when I said that I don’t want to take the course they will so fast to stop me from continuing my disagreement. They kept questioning me and always said something discouraging and while hearing it from them it was so easy for me to feel down. I stopped myself from saying things which I know weren’t that appropriate to even mention to them. And when I take the courage to tell them that I don’t even feel drawn to that career and I can’t even see myself being in that profession they were so quick to stopped me from saying more. I always wanted to enter this certain course, I always want to master this profession. I kept that to myself since if I kept insisting this to my family we always end up a disagreement. I have always love this profession since I was a child, and I see myself in that kind of career. I always love to study about that topic and everything about it fascinates me and keep me wanting for more. And I said to myself I wanted to enter that field someday. That’s the career that I know is for me. The kind of career I know I will love, that I feel the most drawn to. I don’t want to be in a certain kind of career that don’t even love, this will not make me happy and I know it will be a problem to me someday. Forcing yourself into something that you know isn’t the kind of thing you want to be in, will cause you a lot of pain. And I don’t want to even go through that kind of situation. And this time I’m choosing the career that I know I will love seeing myself becoming the person in that profession. It will be hard to get there, but it is Mt decision and I am willing to take the risk. I will hold myself accountable for my actions and I know this choice is something that I will never regret doing. And as for you, I hope you will find the clarity to choose what you really want. That you will be able to choose what you think will never really disappoint yourself. I hope you will be able to choose the career and life that will make you happy. Be ready to take the action and brace yourself, the path towards where you want to go isn’t gonna be easy but you’re a strong one to you will be able to get through all of it. Fighting!!!